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Korean dating norms/cultures?

UnknownExplorer|2026년 4월 2일|조회수: 134

So I went on a date with a Korean guy (in U.S.). He seemed pretty nice, complimenting me and I'll be going out on a second date. A little background info, he's 28 and a doctor. But here's a few things that I noted which I am not sure is quite common or not in the S.Korean culture?

1. ⁠Talking about my family background/wealth. He just commented that I seem to come from a wealthy background. Not sure if I can blame him on this since we do have caste/class difference in my community. But I just felt a little awkward about it.
2. ⁠Talking about marriage and kids. Never talked about this on dates. Lol. Is this common?
3. ⁠Dating thoughts. He told me it's usually after 4-5 dates in his culture that things become official or the guy can ask the girl to officially date I think? He wanted to know my thoughts on it if it seemed appropriate.
4. ⁠Asking about how many men I've dated.

He'll be going back to his country for sure so don't know why'd he want to talk about it. I'm just curious about the culture now. If it's common to talk about these things on the first date or is it just him showing interest in me?


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